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                       Happy New years my Ole friend  Tom stopped in to say hello not staying long  tho, have other ministries .I have learned last few years Its more rewarding to help folks in person now. besides im also involved with relief efforts from Hurricane sandy here in NJ . Anyways nice to hear from ya Maybe ill give ya a shout   ( land line)  soon . Love to touch base with old friends to see how life is exchange a few notes and fellowship/w/one another 
   As far as the Laywer Cya     Nm / Nc  Kenny v
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                       Thanks for stopping in Kenny, and happy holidays to you too. It reminds me of the good 'ol days when Austin Gary, the board's founder was around and we had lively debates. Remember the old format, I wonder if the posts are still available in the archives? 
  Good on you for helping the storm victims. I agree, helping folks in person is much more rewarding then giving taxes to the government and who knows where it goes from there? 
  Call anytime, cheers, tt
 
 
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  DR. SARNO'S 12 DAILY REMINDERS: www.youtube.com/watch?v=r0dKBFwGR0g
  TAKE THE HOLMES-RAHE STRESS TEST http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Holmes_and_Rahe_stress_scale 
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  "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society."  Jiddu Krishnamurti
  "Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional." Author Unknown
  "Happy People Are Happy Putters." Frank Nobilo, Golf Analyst
  "Be careful about reading health books. You may die of a misprint." Mark Twain  and Balto
  "The hot-dog is the noblest of dogs; it feeds the hand that bites it."   Dr. Laurence Johnston Peter ======================================================
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  TMS PRACTITIONERS: John Sarno, MD 400 E 34th St, New York, NY 10016 (212) 263-6035 
 
  Here's the TMS practitioners list from the TMS Help Forum: http://www.tmshelp.com/links.htm
  Here's a list of TMS practitioners from the TMS Wiki: http://tmswiki.org/ppd/Find_a_TMS_Doctor_or_Therapist
 
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                       quote: Originally posted by Back2-It
  A word of explanation: I stay away from the forums, as I mentioned, because I freely admit that I am susceptible to suggestions at this point.  Not so much as before, but I am not years away from the pain cure and from understanding anxiety. And the wisest contributers on here strongly advise to get on with your life and live it and keep to a plan. 
  >>True  >>often times we need to apply what we learn
  As far as addictive personalities and TMS/anxiety, I think it is too broad a statement to say that many or most people who suffer it have addictive personalities. How are you going to work on a person's mind if they are, essentially, out of their minds? 
  >>>That's a funny statement cuz most TMS'ers have additive personalities to start off with. If im not mistaken it was one of the discoveries Sarno made learning about Tms mode Mercola, I'm sorry.  He is the Medical Black e-Hole appearing on your screen each morning, warning you that one more drink of tap water and that's it for you, buddy.   Fear sells.  He is light on scientific proof and will hawk his branded supplement every chance.  Not to say that he does not provide some nuggets of truth, but a stopped clock is right twice per day as well. 
 
   >>>>He's not all about the money and blatantly lies to cash in. Thats what the REAL enemy does. BIG Pharma /Vaccine manufactures)  His objection is health and well being and to educate the public in how to get better yourself. 
 
 
 
   >>>Just keep in mind  all the good guys out there .  But mostly who wants to stop all the whistle blowers. The are many  GOOD  resources to cross check claims and or scientific research in the health field
  For example VRP ( vitamin research products)  . They come out with allot of  well documented research, you can use them as a cross reference any time. 
  >>>>Off course like any good research and making informed choices we take not one reference as all Gospel . Its up to use to do the investigative work to find out if products Drugs , supplements are good quality, help with specific conditions and or for better health. and preventive maintenance
 
 
  
 
   quote: There is no template for cure; each person must structure his own, once they understand what is going on.  Sadly, many pain-wracked people never understand their problem. 
  
 
  >>> So very true True each person must discover it deep within themselves..  Like I used to illustrate Connect the dots with their current / past / condition.  Get rid of any misconceptions . Most of all  do  the homework required by Dr Sarno and you will  start to get  better. Once you start to get/ feel better you believe you can.
    JMHO But dont Stop there Sometimes we need to  discover what we don't like about ourselves and change from within..  And this is not easy  task if we put our wisdom pride and dependance on ourselves. ( yes I do believe in a  somewhat spiritual application) Or if you want to call it spiritual  component .  Sure you can empty the tank inside  through good journalaning once in a while. . But if you need  a deep clean , forgiveness,  (healing within)  I do not think the work  we try to  do will stick, especially with a chronic complex  conditions and severe traumas.  Some that are so bad that we choose to  avoid them  or block them out of our mind.  I Whole hardheartedly believe this type of healing w ill not come from a therapist who will tell you,  that you are OK  Especially  when  in truth you are not  living  an authentic life.  Yes sometimes we need find  forgiveness with what someone did has done or is  doing  to us . But sometimes its us that needs to find the forgiveness. 
  Lastly as far as the physical side  often its is easy as deprogram  in what the world has taught us about ourselves /condition. Sometimes our conditions and or bad  habits are  a bit complex . In fact our whole makeup ( who we are inside)  often needs to be discovered  or changed  Therefore it may require a  Multi  facet approach . Some folks may just need  de programming  while  others may need  a well rounded approach
    JMHO  If Discover  the truth about  ourselves condition , put it to application , something should change  for the better towards health  and wellness.
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                       quote: Originally posted by kenny V
 
  As far as addictive personalities and TMS/anxiety, I think it is too broad a statement to say that many or most people who suffer it have addictive personalities. How are you going to work on a person's mind if they are, essentially, out of their minds? 
  [b]>>>That's a funny statement cuz most TMS'ers have additive personalities to start off with.
 
  
  I don't understand? What part is the funny part?  The part about somebody being so in a panic that they cannot function because thoughts of demise or disease are the only film roll playing, with then somebody then telling them that their condition is psychogenic? Will somebody in that condition suddenly grasp that and say, "hey,doc,your right.  I'm going to stop the panic attack now and settle in with HBP.".  I only wish it were that way for so many. While there is a definite anti-med attitude for many, I cannot fathom trying to reason with a person who is convinced in the next moment that they will die; or, worse, even, have everlasting horrific pain and trying to wrap your racing thoughts around that.  Dr. Weekes talks about the "snap out of it crowd", and the problem that presents to a person who would love to "snap out of it".  That is why I suggested that for SOME, meds should be the first line of attack and not the last. Nipped in the bud, with the ability to be calm and rational (with chemical help) might stop a person from re-programming a normal bodily sensation into a crippling situation. 
  The other part about Dr. Sarno concluding that all TMS/anxiety people are addictive in their personalities -- I just do not see that.  He has worked with the baker and candlestick maker, and people who were from all walks of life. He did not note that,  in addition to their back pain or constant headaches or whatever,  that they came staggering into the office with whiskey on their breath.  If an addictive personality were a prominent point in the dx and "cure", then I would think more attention would have been brought to it.  Ah, yes, Jim X cured has back pain, tossed away the bottle and is now running marathons. 
  What I think is more correct is to say that SOME TMS/anxiety patients have an obsessive personality.  In my opinion, there is a difference. 
  I am no fan of Big Pharma, because another lessen I learned along the way is that some doctors will prescribe the latest wonder drug, some in hope of it really working and helping the person, and some probably due to financial considerations. 
  Dr. Mercola, again, uses fear, mostly, to gain and keep an audience and market.  His solutions often involve the purchase of organic this or that, beyond the financial reach of many, or the dosing with his patented, best in the world, none better, sure to keep you going to 105, krill (snake) oil.  If health includes changing your thinking and not dwelling on the negative or things that cannot be changed by the normal person, this doctor fails.  
  This kind of  discussion, I really believe, discourages some who come to this site looking for the real help it provides.  Dave, again, what about a separate forum for nit picking?  If I would have read this stuff first glance it would have been my first and last visit.  
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                       quote: Originally posted by Back2-It
 
 quote: Originally posted by kenny V
 
  As far as addictive personalities and TMS/anxiety, I think it is too broad a statement to say that many or most people who suffer it have addictive personalities. How are you going to work on a person's mind if they are, essentially, out of their minds? 
  [b]>>>That's a funny statement cuz most TMS'ers have additive personalities to start off with.
 
  
  I don't understand? What part is the funny part?  The part about somebody being so in a panic that they cannot function because thoughts of demise or disease are the only film roll playing, with then somebody then telling them that their condition is psychogenic? Will somebody in that condition suddenly grasp that and say, "hey,doc,your right.  I'm going to stop the panic attack now and settle in with HBP.".  I only wish it were that way for so many. While there is a definite anti-med attitude for many, I cannot fathom trying to reason with a person who is convinced in the next moment that they will die; or, worse, even, have everlasting horrific pain and trying to wrap your racing thoughts around that.  Dr. Weekes talks about the "snap out of it crowd", and the problem that presents to a person who would love to "snap out of it".  That is why I suggested that for SOME, meds should be the first line of attack and not the last. Nipped in the bud, with the ability to be calm and rational (with chemical help) might stop a person from re-programming a normal bodily sensation into a crippling situation. 
  The other part about Dr. Sarno concluding that all TMS/anxiety people are addictive in their personalities -- I just do not see that.  He has worked with the baker and candlestick maker, and people who were from all walks of life. He did not note that,  in addition to their back pain or constant headaches or whatever,  that they came staggering into the office with whiskey on their breath.  If an addictive personality were a prominent point in the dx and "cure", then I would think more attention would have been brought to it.  Ah, yes, Jim X cured has back pain, tossed away the bottle and is now running marathons. 
  What I think is more correct is to say that SOME TMS/anxiety patients have an obsessive personality.  In my opinion, there is a difference. 
  "Bridges Freeze Before Roads"
 
  
 
  I get your point  ,   OK  but  what I meant by funny is  most  addicts not all  ( folks who suffer from an addiction)  have multiple addictive behaviors . Thats why If not RECOVERED they continue on  in  a cycle  similar to the un-recovered  TMSer. . And the recovery or process is not finsished because they have not admitted their addiction and want change .
     I believe TMSers alike have this  similar addictive behaviors  because TMS is a cycle  So one that not yet recovered  has not broken its cycle ,   perhaps  uncovered the underlying condition. Then continue in its pattern of destruction., therefore  its   holding them back  from the truth . Or distracting  them  , holding hostage and the like from ridding the real problem that they should be dealing with.  
  Hope that made more sense. An alcoholic  first must  believe they have a problem and realize how its destroying their life and even folks around them.  The must realize they have an addiction  and  break its cycle.. But must get down to the nitty gritty  of why they drink?  Why they  abused it in the first place without blaming in on something else other than themselves.
 
 
 
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                       Posted - 12/10/2012 :  16:49:59
                        
                        
                      
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                       Hi Kenny V and Back2- it, 
  A dictionary definition of the words addiction and obsession might clear  this discussion up. Here’s my take:   Addiction:                                                            I gave up alcohol 28 years ago and smoking 44 years hence. Indeed these were multiple addictive behaviors.  An addiction being “substance dependant” and mind controlling etc. I have no other addictions.
  Obsessiveness:                                                       Being obsessive is also one of my traits, not necessary harmful, but can cause inner resentment and anger, and has done so with me. My obsessivness is less serious and bothersome compared to addiction. It needs dealing with and is tied in with my perfectionism, frustration and low level anger-anxiety. Obsession is a personality trait and doesn’t require a substance to exist.
  Love:                                                                 My love is for my wife, family and life. I would admit to being obsessed with windsurfing and am always seeking balance. 
  I don’t take offense at “funny” or “funny peculiar” as mind body is funny and peculiar. I had to take some blame and responsibility on myself for all of the above, and had to face the issues to overcome them. To this day I am pleased satisfied and even proud to have overcome Smoking and Alcohol in lieu of an early death. 
  Overcoming Smoking, Alcohol and my 2000 TMS recovery are the foundations of my belief in Mind body and TMS. I never took care of the mind issues and nitty-gritty involving the above, as the reasons are broad, intense and varied and remain in the depths of my soul.
  That’s why I am here, thanks for prompting me to journal here.
  Sort of rhymes..    
 
  Andy Past TMS Experience in 2000, with success. Back on Wiki Edu Program day 15 Charlie Horse on neck for 20 years. (to be evicted later.) Books:  Healing Back Pain Unlearn your Pain The Great Pain Deception | 
                     
                    
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                       quote: Originally posted by kenny V
 
 quote: Originally posted by Back2-It
 
 quote: Originally posted by kenny V
 
  As far as addictive personalities and TMS/anxiety, I think it is too broad a statement to say that many or most people who suffer it have addictive personalities. How are you going to work on a person's mind if they are, essentially, out of their minds? 
  [b]>>>That's a funny statement cuz most TMS'ers have additive personalities to start off with.
 
  
  I don't understand? What part is the funny part?  The part about somebody being so in a panic that they cannot function because thoughts of demise or disease are the only film roll playing, with then somebody then telling them that their condition is psychogenic? Will somebody in that condition suddenly grasp that and say, "hey,doc,your right.  I'm going to stop the panic attack now and settle in with HBP.".  I only wish it were that way for so many. While there is a definite anti-med attitude for many, I cannot fathom trying to reason with a person who is convinced in the next moment that they will die; or, worse, even, have everlasting horrific pain and trying to wrap your racing thoughts around that.  Dr. Weekes talks about the "snap out of it crowd", and the problem that presents to a person who would love to "snap out of it".  That is why I suggested that for SOME, meds should be the first line of attack and not the last. Nipped in the bud, with the ability to be calm and rational (with chemical help) might stop a person from re-programming a normal bodily sensation into a crippling situation. 
  The other part about Dr. Sarno concluding that all TMS/anxiety people are addictive in their personalities -- I just do not see that.  He has worked with the baker and candlestick maker, and people who were from all walks of life. He did not note that,  in addition to their back pain or constant headaches or whatever,  that they came staggering into the office with whiskey on their breath.  If an addictive personality were a prominent point in the dx and "cure", then I would think more attention would have been brought to it.  Ah, yes, Jim X cured has back pain, tossed away the bottle and is now running marathons. 
  What I think is more correct is to say that SOME TMS/anxiety patients have an obsessive personality.  In my opinion, there is a difference. 
  "Bridges Freeze Before Roads"
 
  
 
  I get your point  ,   OK  but  what I meant by funny is  most  addicts not all  ( folks who suffer from an addiction)  have multiple addictive behaviors . Thats why If not RECOVERED they continue on  in  a cycle  similar to the un-recovered  TMSer. . And the recovery or process is not finsished because they have not admitted their addiction and want change .
     I believe TMSers alike have this  similar addictive behaviors  because TMS is a cycle  So one that not yet recovered  has not broken its cycle ,   perhaps  uncovered the underlying condition. Then continue in its pattern of destruction., therefore  its   holding them back  from the truth . Or distracting  them  , holding hostage and the like from ridding the real problem that they should be dealing with.  
  Hope that made more sense. An alcoholic  first must  believe they have a problem and realize how its destroying their life and even folks around them.  The must realize they have an addiction  and  break its cycle.. But must get down to the nitty gritty  of why they drink?  Why they  abused it in the first place without blaming in on something else other than themselves.
 
 
 
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  I get your point  ,   OK  but  what I meant by funny is  most  addicts not all  ( folks who suffer from an addiction)  have multiple addictive behaviors . Thats why If not RECOVERED they continue on  in  a cycle  similar to the un-recovered  TMSer. . And the recovery or process is not finsished because they have not admitted their addiction and want change .
     I believe TMSers alike have this  similar addictive behaviors  because TMS is a cycle  So one that not yet recovered  has not broken its cycle ,   perhaps  uncovered the underlying condition. Then continue in its pattern of destruction., therefore  its   holding them back  from the truth . Or distracting  them  , holding hostage and the like from ridding the real problem that they should be dealing with.  
  Hope that made more sense. An alcoholic  first must  believe they have a problem and realize how its destroying their life and even folks around them.  The must realize they have an addiction  and  break its cycle.. But must get down to the nitty gritty  of why they drink?  Why they  abused it in the first place without blaming in on something else other than themselves.
 
 
 
   Always Hope For Recovery
 
 
  
  More understandable.  I am of the belief that, with the exception of a very few, most physical symptoms are the result of the  fear of the symptoms continuing and being something structural.  One can fully recover from the TMS "cycle" if they realize what it is that they are rally dealing with: anxiety.  Once the knowledge is gained about what anxiety dose to a body, the cure will become self-evident.  Sure, some twinge or pain may try to pop to the surface, but with a knowledge of what anxiety does to the body will stop it in due time.
  My continuing suggestion to the TMS practitioners out there is that they have to explain more fully to some people, especially those who are "stuck",  what the physical effects on a body are of hypertonic muscles -- referred pain, etc..  For other anxiety manifestations, the same.  
  If knowledge is the cure, and if Dr. Sarno,  says you have to know what is going on, that means that you can disregard the physical exercises and treatments and such, but you have to -- have to-- know why, if your traps are tight, why they might refer pain to your chest or other areas. Otherwise, when resuming "normal" activity you will frighten yourself into stopping, because it is your back muscles that are tense but your chest that is hurting.
  It is not enough to say "you're fine. It is stress/anxiety", will not work for everybody, and that is because of the obsessive TMS/anxiety personality of some. 
  It took an anatomy lesson and a better understanding of the body that finally got rid of the pain for me.  Somehow, I think others need this knowledge, especially from a "MindBody" doctor/practitioner. 
  That's about all I've got to say, I'm afraid. 
  Merry, Merry to all.  And to all a good night.
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                       quote: Originally posted by andy64tms
  Hi Kenny V and Back2- it,    Addiction:                                                            I gave up alcohol 28 years ago and smoking 44 years hence. Indeed these were multiple addictive behaviors.  An addiction being “substance dependant” and mind controlling etc. I have no other addictions.
  Obsessiveness:                                                       Being obsessive is also one of my traits, not necessary harmful, but can cause inner resentment and anger, and has done so with me. My obsessivness is less serious and bothersome compared to addiction. It needs dealing with and is tied in with my perfectionism, frustration and low level anger-anxiety. Obsession is a personality trait and doesn’t require a substance to exist.
  Love:                                                                 My love is for my wife, family and life. I would admit to being obsessed with windsurfing and am always seeking balance. 
  I don’t take offense at “funny” or “funny peculiar” as mind body is funny and peculiar. I had to take some blame and responsibility on myself for all of the above, and had to face the issues to overcome them. To this day I am pleased satisfied and even proud to have overcome Smoking and Alcohol in lieu of an early death. 
  Overcoming Smoking, Alcohol and my 2000 TMS recovery are the foundations of my belief in Mind body and TMS. I never took care of the mind issues and nitty-gritty involving the above, as the reasons are broad, intense and varied and remain in the depths of my soul.
  That’s why I am here, thanks for prompting me to journal here.
 
  
  Good stuff   Andy thats why you had success . Jmho you Got real  with yourself and dealt with  some of the underlying issues.  Yup yup  and the rest is to work it self out as you continue on your personal journey. 
   Thank you for being honest , I had many traits , bad  habits habits  that needed to be changed , and my  greatest  underlying emotional issues to deal with  was anger    Btw my wife is a recovering alcoholic too. NA ( both drugs and alcoholic/addict) She said besides admitting you are an addict  one of the first steps to come to reality is when you are  sick and tired of being sick and tired and want to change it. She also confessed  that if she didn't surrender  her addiction that she would be dead . She is sober now for over 20 years  and she continues to submit  through prayer as her daily Journal
   IMO  Journaling  gives us a chance to get real with ourselves.  Ain't no drug or counseling session  gona do that .   Jmho we have to take inventory and clean out the closet .
   Great testimony Andy  Kenny v
 
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