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jrnythpst
USA
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 Posted - 07/05/2006 : 14:28:23
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Hi Guys,
Well Art you were right save it was in the form of an email. Here is what he wrote followed by my response:
"wel im startig to guess that u dont want to talk to me at all any more well if thats so i wish u the best and hope u have found some one that makes u happier then i ever did i still love you but i just want u to be happy no matter what so if u want to call me ill be at home all nite tonite"
"No I would rather not call you. Glenn and Lillian will bring you the rest of your stuff at some point. Your book should be included with that. Please leave me and best friend alone. "
I hope that works. I probably should have been more crude. ARrgggh why can't he just stay out of my life for good?????????
Hugs,
Ali Cat |
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Michele
249 Posts |
Posted - 07/05/2006 : 15:11:50
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| If he contacts you again, you have a right to report him. You probably had a right a long time ago - it's called harrassment. |
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Singer_Artist
USA
1516 Posts |
Posted - 07/05/2006 : 16:08:05
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| sounds like he may be a bit obsessed w/ you...It will take a little time, but he will give up and find a new 'victim..' Just keep the boundary up and be firm yet not cruel... |
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art
1903 Posts |
Posted - 07/06/2006 : 03:53:25
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Hi Ali,
Narcisists are nothing if not predictable. As long as you've made your position clear, from now on don't respond to him at all...He has a black hole in the place his heart should be and as far as he's concerned the negative attention he gets by makinig you miserable is far preferable to no attention at all...
Note the "I only want you to be happy" followe immediately by "so call me." Me, me, me.
He couldn't care less about your happiness.
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jrnythpst
USA
134 Posts |
Posted - 07/06/2006 : 06:20:33
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I totally agree with you Art. The only reason I answered the email was so I would have it in writing that I told him to leave me alone. He tried to make me feel guilty but all it did was make me want to gag. I wish I had never met him. Thanks for the response. Any more predictions Art? LOL BTW is your name Art or are you into Art? I love art myself, taught one year, thinking about getting my masters in elementary ed and teaching it again.
Hugs,
Ali Cat |
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art
1903 Posts |
Posted - 07/06/2006 : 06:54:44
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Ali,
Check out the e-mail I sent you...All is revealed there... |
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ARRGGHH the ex sent an email
