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pspa123
  
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Posted - 05/15/2013 : 17:40:53
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I was just seeking to understand what he was saying, as he seemed to me to be pointing to people who were traumatized but remained healthy as evidence that trauma isn't a major cause of TMS -- but I asked him in case I was misinterpreting. |
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chickenbone
 
Panama
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Posted - 05/15/2013 : 18:09:39
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Ace, I think we are pretty much on the same page. Pspa has a point in bringing up the idea of other mental/psychological issues that can cause or be related to TMS. I no longer consider TMS to be my primary problem. I had spells of serious TMS at various times in my life, mostly during times of stress. But I think I have underlying trauma that caused it. In fact, I am grateful for the TMS because it is only because of not wanting to live in pain that I began to take steps, the Keys, to overcome it. I succeeded, but then my sleeplessness and anxiety got much worse, as if these were TMS equivalents (to the pain). I think this uncovered my main problem, which is my inability to sleep well, probably due to the original trauma. A particularly noxious variation of this problem has happened to me in the past, for example during and after my first husband's illness and death from cancer, is that I get caught in that gray area when I drift off to sleep, get into a nightmare, but am actually AWAKE, but can't move because my body is still paralyzed. This only lasts for a short time before I wake up, but I had many nights when I was exhausted and it would happen each time I drifted off to sleep. This, however, hasn't happened in many years. I was seeing a Psychiatrist at the time and he knew about this kind of sleep disturbance, but could only offer medication. My sleep problem is very serious. There are only 2 ways I can fall asleep now, either when I am dead tired after being sleep deprived, or if I take a pill that causes me to not remember falling asleep. The same thing happens every time, when I catch a wave of sleep, just as I am about to doze off, something in my brain causes a feeling of panic like some part of me is saying "don't fall asleep!!". I read recently that this is the type of insomnia that PTSD victims have, this nervous system hyper-vigilance. I have not been successful dealing with this problem with my conscious mind. The strategy that works with pain, allergies and other "symptom imperatives" don't work with sleep. Also, sleeping pills don't work. The only medication that works is called perphenazine/amitriptiline. (used to be called Triavil). I stopped taking this periodically because I keep trying to do without pills (I only take 25mg Amitriptiline, and 4mg perphenazine). For a short time I replaced this with a low dose of Zolpidem, but it did not work well. I don't take any other meds other than my thyroid meds. I am very frustrated that I can't get off of this. This medication seems to turn off that "alarm" that goes off in my brain and allows me to sleep.
I know that I have a lot of fear surrounding sleep, but it seems to be on a deeply unconscious level and I just cannot get at it. |
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plum
  
United Kingdom
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Posted - 05/15/2013 : 18:14:31
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I'm also seeking to understand sweetheart, and would welcome a fleshing out of Ace1's experiences with the traumatised. I was only adding a very personal observation that may not hold for others. |
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chickenbone
 
Panama
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Posted - 05/15/2013 : 18:24:22
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Plum, you are such a dear. Yes, I am a big fan of Jaynes. It is too bad that his work never really went anywhere. I have not read Bentov, but I will soon, thanks for the book reference. I am sure, if you recommend it, it is fascinating. One of my goals in life is to be bicameral and SANE. Isn't Jaynes' theory that schizophrenia is an accident of evolution/regression to an earlier mentality, and not a mental illness fascinating?
I agree with you Plum, that all this rushing, hyperactivity can be a result of childhood trauma. Levine says this often. |
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Dr James Alexander

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Posted - 05/15/2013 : 18:24:48
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Back2it. Yes, i agree- it makes no real difference to most people if Hayes et al works are called CBT or not- it is of no real significance. I only comment on it because 'genuine' CBT (ie. the approach devised by Aaron Beck-CBT; and Albert Ellis-RET) became the flavour of the month in psychology for several decades. This was largely to the exclusion of all other innovations, and all that had come before. You bemoan that most counsellors, psychologists, psychiatrists, clincal social workers etc dont do psychotherapy- and you are correct. Most of these professionals only do a version of CBT/RET (as per Beck and Ellis). It is bec CBT was favoured by psychology academics (it is simple and easy to teach) and by psychology researchers (it is simple to administer and easy to measure relevant cognitions/emotions before and after) who held power in the American Psychological Association, and American Psychiatric Association in the 80's that CBT became the preferred option. Because CBT was well suited to randomised controlled trials (only one form of assessing the usefulness of an approach), the evidence based push viewed evidence from RCT's as the only valid form of evidence, and the academics/researchers succeeded in dictating to everyone what worked in psychology. Because of this, most forms of 'depth-psychology' (psychotherapy) fell out of favour, stopped being taught, and within a decade or so had become almost unavailable. As such, we are now at a point where, like you said, most mental health practitioners dont do psychotherapy- they tend to keep it all on the surface cognitive level. Now, i am not saying this will not help some people for some things- clearly it will. But CBT (as per Beck and Ellis) has been way over sold as the only approach which is useful for all things. More recent meta-analytic studies have demonstrated that rather than being a superior way of doing psychology, CBT is merely one way- which is actually no better than any other way. There has simply been a fantastic marketing job on it, which is fine, apart from the fact that this has resulted in a disparagement and then discarding of all other approaches, eg depth psychology. The range of choices have become radically reduced as a result.
In regards to Indiana's original question- there is simply no evidence that (pure) CBT does have any positive impact on the intensity and duration of chronic pain, much like physical therapies. There is evidence that (pure) CBT can have as much of a positive impact on other problems (eg. anxiety, depression, etc) as any other approach, but no evidence when it comes to chronic pain. This is not to say it is useless with chronic pain. As you have correctly stated, many people will appreciate feeling less panicked about their pain, less catastrophising, more perspective, etc. This is all beneficial, and can be a result of CBT. But on its own (pure) CBT is not likely to either radically reduce the pain or eliminate it- this is because (according to the TMS approach) such pain is being generated from a level which is psycho-neurologically deeper than the neo-cortex, which is where (pure) CBT operates. As such, in order to successfully address it, the suggestion is that one needs a depth-psychology approach which works with this deeper level (psychoanalysis is only one option- i am aware of EMDR for trauma, and Coherence Therapy as other viable depth psychology options, but no doubt there are others).
To me, the irony is that when people pick up the TMS approach from books, they are essentially undergoing a cognitive change process. Our beliefs (cognitions) about what is generating the pain is challenged, and new ideas are presented and incorporated. As such, this is akin to a CBT process- the irony is that they are learning a depth-psychology way of making sense of their pain (and CBT and depth psychology dont usually exist in the same sentence, unless it is in juxtaposition). This tells me that the right type of cognitive change (via the right depth-psychology ideas) can be effective in stimulating healing. This does work for many people- the book cure does happen. I have experienced, seen it in other people, and have read accounts of it here. When this cognitive change is not enough to create healing, then it may be time to consider therapy as an opportunity to get to a deeper level than what we can usually do on our own. Most of us can work at the surface cognitive level quite well- the (pure) CBT practitioner is more like a coach, simply urging the person to do what they already know how to do. it is more difficult for us to access and work with the deeper levels of our psycho-neurological functioning- it can be done, as evidenced by some of the people posting here, but it is substantially more difficult. Thats where a competent and trusted therapist can come in.
As far as the new wave of CBT- yes, i think they are excellent. I just dont think they are CBT. To me, for CBT to lay claim to these approaches is just the actions of a dying orthodoxy clambering for quodos by coat-tailing on new innovations which actually have almost nothing to do with the orthodoxy. Where people like Hayes claim that their approach is a new wave of CBT, i think this is just a smart marketing move, as (pure) CBT has convinced the entire western world that the only approach that has any credibility is CBT. Just becuase it is smart marketing doesnt make it true. And i realise this is not an important issue to most people. But to a psychologist who began my training when the CBT revolution was happening, and seeing how this became the orthodoxy which, like a mono-culture farm that destroys bio-diversity, i see how it has resulted in people not being able to access competent psychotherapy when they want it.
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chickenbone
 
Panama
398 Posts |
Posted - 05/15/2013 : 18:50:17
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Thank-you, Dr. Alexander. I agree with what you have said. It most definitely resonates with my own personal experience.
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Back2-It
 
USA
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Posted - 05/15/2013 : 21:44:18
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quote: Originally posted by Dr James Alexander
Back2it. Yes, i agree- it makes no real difference to most people if Hayes et al works are called CBT or not- it is of no real significance. I only comment on it because 'genuine' CBT (ie. the approach devised by Aaron Beck-CBT; and Albert Ellis-RET) became the flavour of the month in psychology for several decades. This was largely to the exclusion of all other innovations, and all that had come before. You bemoan that most counsellors, psychologists, psychiatrists, clincal social workers etc dont do psychotherapy- and you are correct. Most of these professionals only do a version of CBT/RET (as per Beck and Ellis). It is bec CBT was favoured by psychology academics (it is simple and easy to teach) and by psychology researchers (it is simple to administer and easy to measure relevant cognitions/emotions before and after) who held power in the American Psychological Association, and American Psychiatric Association in the 80's that CBT became the preferred option. Because CBT was well suited to randomised controlled trials (only one form of assessing the usefulness of an approach), the evidence based push viewed evidence from RCT's as the only valid form of evidence, and the academics/researchers succeeded in dictating to everyone what worked in psychology. Because of this, most forms of 'depth-psychology' (psychotherapy) fell out of favour, stopped being taught, and within a decade or so had become almost unavailable. As such, we are now at a point where, like you said, most mental health practitioners dont do psychotherapy- they tend to keep it all on the surface cognitive level. Now, i am not saying this will not help some people for some things- clearly it will. But CBT (as per Beck and Ellis) has been way over sold as the only approach which is useful for all things. More recent meta-analytic studies have demonstrated that rather than being a superior way of doing psychology, CBT is merely one way- which is actually no better than any other way. There has simply been a fantastic marketing job on it, which is fine, apart from the fact that this has resulted in a disparagement and then discarding of all other approaches, eg depth psychology. The range of choices have become radically reduced as a result.
In regards to Indiana's original question- there is simply no evidence that (pure) CBT does have any positive impact on the intensity and duration of chronic pain, much like physical therapies. There is evidence that (pure) CBT can have as much of a positive impact on other problems (eg. anxiety, depression, etc) as any other approach, but no evidence when it comes to chronic pain. This is not to say it is useless with chronic pain. As you have correctly stated, many people will appreciate feeling less panicked about their pain, less catastrophising, more perspective, etc. This is all beneficial, and can be a result of CBT. But on its own (pure) CBT is not likely to either radically reduce the pain or eliminate it- this is because (according to the TMS approach) such pain is being generated from a level which is psycho-neurologically deeper than the neo-cortex, which is where (pure) CBT operates. As such, in order to successfully address it, the suggestion is that one needs a depth-psychology approach which works with this deeper level (psychoanalysis is only one option- i am aware of EMDR for trauma, and Coherence Therapy as other viable depth psychology options, but no doubt there are others).
To me, the irony is that when people pick up the TMS approach from books, they are essentially undergoing a cognitive change process. Our beliefs (cognitions) about what is generating the pain is challenged, and new ideas are presented and incorporated. As such, this is akin to a CBT process- the irony is that they are learning a depth-psychology way of making sense of their pain (and CBT and depth psychology dont usually exist in the same sentence, unless it is in juxtaposition). This tells me that the right type of cognitive change (via the right depth-psychology ideas) can be effective in stimulating healing. This does work for many people- the book cure does happen. I have experienced, seen it in other people, and have read accounts of it here. When this cognitive change is not enough to create healing, then it may be time to consider therapy as an opportunity to get to a deeper level than what we can usually do on our own. Most of us can work at the surface cognitive level quite well- the (pure) CBT practitioner is more like a coach, simply urging the person to do what they already know how to do. it is more difficult for us to access and work with the deeper levels of our psycho-neurological functioning- it can be done, as evidenced by some of the people posting here, but it is substantially more difficult. Thats where a competent and trusted therapist can come in.
As far as the new wave of CBT- yes, i think they are excellent. I just dont think they are CBT. To me, for CBT to lay claim to these approaches is just the actions of a dying orthodoxy clambering for quodos by coat-tailing on new innovations which actually have almost nothing to do with the orthodoxy. Where people like Hayes claim that their approach is a new wave of CBT, i think this is just a smart marketing move, as (pure) CBT has convinced the entire western world that the only approach that has any credibility is CBT. Just becuase it is smart marketing doesnt make it true. And i realise this is not an important issue to most people. But to a psychologist who began my training when the CBT revolution was happening, and seeing how this became the orthodoxy which, like a mono-culture farm that destroys bio-diversity, i see how it has resulted in people not being able to access competent psychotherapy when they want it.
James
Doctor, you are talking way above my paygrade. I think that read between the lines Sarno's books are CBT. Same with some of the others. My idea has been "whatever works". There is no TMS template or silver bullet one size fits all.
It is a shame about psychotherapy, because I believe a person who is not even having trouble can benefit from knowing themselves better.
One friend of mine who suffered from anxiety used to call the various counselors she bounced to "paid friends". Rather demeaning to a sincere practitioner, but in a sense true, in that many cannot divulge to a close friend but sometimes can hash things out with a bartender or a complete stranger. That is why organizations like Recovery International should be on every block.
Keep up the good work, Doctor. Maybe someday the thinking will change not only on psychotherapy but on the entire MB experience. Someday.
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indiana

Denmark
70 Posts |
Posted - 05/16/2013 : 06:29:39
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quote: Originally posted by chickenbone
Hi indiana. I suffer from a lot of what you describe. If I had access to professional treatment, I would take it. However, it is important that you get the treatment that is right for you. Before deciding on a therapist, you might want to read Dr. James Alexander's book called "The Hidden Psychology of Pain". This book picks up where Dr. Sarno left off. It provides an excellent summary of the problem of TMS and what forms of treatments are available today. This book could help both you and your therapist decide on a workable course of treatment for you. There is also a lot of self-help stuff in the book also.
Hi Chickenbone Thanks for the book suggestion. I am taking a break from books for a few months as I am still "digesting" Sarnos' and Weekes books. I have had a tendency in the past thinking just reading another book will be bring me salvation. That is why I want to take it easy for now and start again in autumn. Marlis |
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indiana

Denmark
70 Posts |
Posted - 05/16/2013 : 06:53:14
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quote: Originally posted by Back2-It
quote: [i] Don't know what this means. I realise I have a lot of work to do but I am on my way.I still think I need some sort of therapy as I have a great need to talk to somebody completely openly and honestly. What I don't know is whether it should be CBT or psychonanalysis (I think Sarno suggests the latter). Should I just leave everything to the psychiatrist? On the other hand I have read so many threads lately and have become a lot wiser on many things.
The problem I found with psychotherapy is that there are so few psychiatrists and counselors who practice psychotherapy. The psychiatrist gives you some meds and then sends you to a counselor. Most psychiatrists do not accept the idea of emotions causing physical distress, and many counselors do not either.
If you have a trusted friend, or even can make one on one of the TMS sites, it might serve to expunge the emotions and find some relief in being totally honest. Often, it hard to do this with close friends, as you have a big investment in how they perceive you. That is why perhaps a friend who has been through the same but is not too close (there are probably more people you know than you think who have been where you are). Once you talk things out things often get easier and you find that you are practicing CBT without even knowing.
Another factor is the cost and the clock watching. I went to a counselor who had a clock on her desk that she would look at throughout the session. I know they have to make money, but the idea that I was just another psycho-widget to process was a turn-off and I stopped going.
I began to examine my life and and personality based on Sarno's books and found I fit a number of those personalities. I then went back in time to see and understand the different patterns of action and reaction and how they applied to the current stresses in life. I learned that I was not who I thought I was, and that my thoughts were not mine but adapted by the words and phrases I associated with the person I was and had been. I was a ball of fear.
Luckily, I found two things that helped me further. One was a friend but not a close friend, who had suffered the same and also a massage therapist who did nothing to reduce the chronically tight muscles but explained how muscles work and that my case was nothing out of the ordinary, and we got along very well. It was soothing to know this and eventually the muscles relaxed.
Talk to a friend, or find a good counselor, but read and re-read "The Keys", and meditate on them and apply them personally and you might find that it will be enough.
"Bridges Freeze Before Roads"
Hi Back2-it Thanks for replying Yes I have a feeling that is going to be like that. Suggestion of taking medicin and off to a therapist - most likely CBT. Of course I have to give the psychiatrist the benefit of the doubt as I have not seen her yet. The clock watching and the cost are very irritating. I remember seeing a therapist many years ago (I stopped as it did not lead anywhere). Whenever I got "warmed up" i.e. after 45 minutes she stopped. Very frustrating as is having to pay for a few sessions because you have to find out if the chemistry between you and the therapist is good. I wish I had a trusted friend like that but I don't. People, friends, even my own family shrink away as soon as it is something "mental". I am used to it by now. Even my own sister who has the same issues as we were the oldest in a large family I cannot talk to. I will look at the suggested book in a few months. Have quite a list by now Marlis |
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indiana

Denmark
70 Posts |
Posted - 05/16/2013 : 07:17:50
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quote: Originally posted by Dr James Alexander
Indiana- when it comes to most problems other than chronic pain, research suggests that CBT is about as effective as any other approach (including psychoanalysis)- there are many approaches to choose from,and it think its a matter of finding one that suits the kind of person you are and your interests. Than, apart from the approach, you want to find a therapist who you can relate to- what kind of person are they? There needs to be a reasonable match. However, when it comes to chronic pain, there is simply no evidence that CBT can help other than help you to adjust to the fact that you are in pain. This may be a welcome relief for some/many, but the goal of the TMS approach is to help you to either radically reduce the pain or to become pain free. There is evidence (eg. Sarno's outcome studies) that a depth-psychology approach is more helpful in achieving this. Psychoanalysis is only one variation of depth-psychology. If you want to use the TMS approach, then it is important that you are invited by your therapist to go beyond surface level thoughts and feelings (which is where CBT keeps it- all very safe, and largely ineffective in dealing with chronic pain). If you think your pain is resulting from traumatic experiences, my suggestion is to explore EMDR (see my website for more details: www.drjamesalexander-psychologist.com). If you think your pain is resulting from pain incurred as a child from unloving parents, neglect etc (ie. more what positive things didnt happen rather than what bad things did happen), then i'd suggest Coherence Therapy- google it, and there is some stuff about this on my website as well. If you want to just learn how to manage being in pain, CBT will help.
James
Dr. James Alexander Thank you for replying I will look into your website regarding EMDR as I don't know anything about it. I really think I need a depth-psychology approach and go beyond suraface level as you put it. I have had break downs, nearly break downs and crisis for years (where I am doing ok in between but have a feeling that the emotional pain never goes away and pops up again and again). I am not in heavy physical pain as such. The symptoms are muscle tensions, TMJ and dizziness among others. The question is whether I can find a counsellor I can relate to (or how many I would have to try) and who can understand what I want to happen. As it is very expensive I will not be talked into any therapi just to be in terapi. Thanks Marlis |
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indiana

Denmark
70 Posts |
Posted - 05/16/2013 : 10:29:57
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quote: Originally posted by Back2-It
I was where Indiana was, and worse. I did have a complete breakdown. While CBT may keep things in safe and "on the surface", it can be a useful step in the WILLINGNESS to accept your pain. This in itself can be comforting and a way of training your thoughts toward deeper healing.
Then you can dig around in emotions if the results are not providing the "cure", but often facing the fear of the pain will initiate a cure for most.
Once the emotions are at least understood to be the cause, and if you can establish patterns of the past that carry through to the present, and make adjustments that you can, you will find that you are practicing CBT without knowing. That is my opinion, anyway.
In addition, CBT has modified over the years and grown. If Indiana wants to explore further I would suggest Steven C. Hayes "Get Out of Your Mind and into Your Life," which is the "third wave" of CBT. Also, as a companion piece I would suggest the CD of "A New Earth", by Eckhart Tolle, which, in my opinion, is a spiritual approach to newer CBT. In fact, I would not explore one without the other, because it rounds out the ideas in full dimension.
Still, the iQuick way to get an understanding is to read and re-read "The Keys". Maybe record them and play them back to yourself, as often auditory is more effective and lasting than simply reading. I wish I had had The Keys when I was suffering. Meditate on them, digest them word by word, apply it personally to your thoughts and actions, and you will have the ultimate companion piece to the authors mentioned above.
I'm just a guy on a forum. If you can find good professional help, then that is a good way to go, too.
You will get there, Indiana.
"Bridges Freeze Before Roads"
Back2-it At the moment even though I do quite a bit I feel I do not have the tools to heal by myself. I find the Keys very helpful and read them every day. Other than that I have read Tolle/Weekes and I have received a lot of book suggestions on this forum for further reading. However reading alone is not helping. When I had my nearly breakdowns I always felt completely lost inside and unable to help myself in any way, making my physical symptoms worse and starting the vicious circle.( I was asking myself where does this all come from and I guess that is what I have to find out). It really scares me that this will go on and on. This is why I have to dig down in my past and actually provoke pain and remember hurtful situations (there are plenty)again and again. I hope I can get the proper therapi but if not I will have to do it on my own. Apparently it can be done according to you. Thanks for your encouraging post
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plum
  
United Kingdom
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Posted - 05/16/2013 : 10:48:54
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Marlis,
If you visit his site, you'll find links to a couple of youtube videos where James explains EMDR in much detail. He's also an advocate of eft, which many people have found incredibly beneficial. I'm fairly new to it but can say it has helped. I mention eft because I'm going this alone too and need healing practices I can do myself. A while back chickenbone offered this link http://www.eftuniverse.com/index.php
It contains a wealth of resources. Currently I'm learning about it and following videos on youtube. I find it's an excellent compliment to the Keys.
As for reading, there's a big difference in reading books in the hope that this one is 'The Grail', and reading to be informed. So many posters who have healed repeatedly assure us that there is nothing to cure because tms is benign. Forest wrote this very thing today. In the spirit of evolving and growing, of which understanding ourselves and why we have pain in our lives is but a part, reading is ok. It's only when it becomes an obsessive method of 'curing ourselves' that the balance tips.
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indiana

Denmark
70 Posts |
Posted - 05/17/2013 : 02:11:25
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quote: Originally posted by plum
Marlis,
If you visit his site, you'll find links to a couple of youtube videos where James explains EMDR in much detail. He's also an advocate of eft, which many people have found incredibly beneficial. I'm fairly new to it but can say it has helped. I mention eft because I'm going this alone too and need healing practices I can do myself. A while back chickenbone offered this link http://www.eftuniverse.com/index.php
It contains a wealth of resources. Currently I'm learning about it and following videos on youtube. I find it's an excellent compliment to the Keys.
As for reading, there's a big difference in reading books in the hope that this one is 'The Grail', and reading to be informed. So many posters who have healed repeatedly assure us that there is nothing to cure because tms is benign. Forest wrote this very thing today. In the spirit of evolving and growing, of which understanding ourselves and why we have pain in our lives is but a part, reading is ok. It's only when it becomes an obsessive method of 'curing ourselves' that the balance tips.
Wishing you well my love.
Hi Plum Thanks for the information about EMDR and EFT which I had never heard of. From what I have read so far EMDR sounds like the therapi for me and I even found two psychologists in my area who practice EMDR. Quite amazing (I live in a small town). Now remains the question if I match with any of these two but I will have to see. As for reading books I did have the wrong approach when reading self help books, expecting too much and always expecting something. It can get quite addictive. Another book - a new cure. It will take a while before it sinks in that TMS needs not to be cured but of course I am a beginner with even doubts sometimes. When the gardening season is over I will choose some of the books recommended on this forum with a new approach, namely to learn. I am looking forward already. Marlis |
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Ace1
   
USA
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Posted - 05/17/2013 : 07:03:29
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Hello All, First I believe, as plum has already said, that the trauma sensitizes your nervous system and lead to habits that tend to continue to sensitize you and become the major problem. In the US, we look at ourselves like victims and we tend to dewell on our pain or what hapened to us in the past. In other instances, the repeated trauma, makes us react intensly to everything, its like we get in that mode from the trauma and then we start doing normal things and now our brains associate that intnesity with normal activity and then it becomes a normal part of our lives to be that way with everything. SInce the ANS results in fight or flight, the two are so intertwined that somehow annoyance, fear, anger somehow also stimulates feelings of escape (or flight). This is subtle, but try to see this in yourself and you will understand. THis then becomes carried over in normal activity automatically. The symptoms, if importance is given to them (which many in the 3rd world do not bc there is no health insurance and no health anxiety), contribute to this cycle. As you can see you have to unravel all of this, especially in most severe cases and therefore takes time and practice. Now one has to come to terms with their trauma as not to let it continue to sensitize one in the present. All of the problems from the trauma comes from how it affects you in the PRESENT. So you have to decondition yourself to this event, by reliving it in your mind, but making it that it is ok now because it is over and your a better person for it and that you forgive. The deconditioning process is listed in my keys. |
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Back2-It
 
USA
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Posted - 05/17/2013 : 07:11:47
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quote: Originally posted by Ace1
Hello All, First I believe, as plum has already said, that the trauma sensitizes your nervous system and lead to habits that tend to continue to sensitize you and become the major problem. In the US, we look at ourselves like victims and we tend to dewell on our pain or what hapened to us in the past. In other instances, the repeated trauma, makes us react intensly to everything, its like we get in that mode from the trauma and then we start doing normal things and now our brains associate that intnesity with normal activity and then it becomes a normal part of our lives to be that way with everything. SInce the ANS results in fight or flight, the two are so intertwined that somehow annoyance, fear, anger somehow also stimulates feelings of escape (or flight). This is subtle, but try to see this in yourself and you will understand. THis then becomes carried over in normal activity automatically. The symptoms, if importance is given to them (which many in the 3rd world do not bc there is no health insurance and no health anxiety), contribute to this cycle. As you can see you have to unravel all of this, especially in most severe cases and therefore takes time and practice. Now one has to come to terms with their trauma as not to let it continue to sensitize one in the present. All of the problems from the trauma comes from how it affects you in the PRESENT. So you have to decondition yourself to this event, by reliving it in your mind, but making it that it is ok now because it is over and your a better person for it and that you forgive. The deconditioning process is listed in my keys.
Bingo!
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