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jrnythpst
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 Posted - 07/04/2006 : 16:17:30
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Ok one less thing on my mind now. The idiot ex boyfriend that I kicked out in April...very long story but it should be sufficient to say that he's a worthless, lazy, slobby, fat, good for nothing sob who cared only for himself. He didn't have his GED or driver's license and refused to get a job or even look for one and lied to me about looking for one. I bought him a POS car and helped him get his license and he still wouldn't get a job.
The day I could trap him in a lie was the day I kicked him out of my house and my life. Friends set us up, that was before it was known that he is a pathological liar. I thought I could save him at first, he said to have had such a lousy horribl childhood and claimed his mom beat him growing up and still hated him. I thought I was saving him taking him out of that environment. Boy was I wrong and he brought me down with him. I have never met such a good for nothing loser in my life. My friend and family hated him and it took me a year to get rid of him. My brother said that proves that I have low self esteem down deep because part of me didn't believe that I deserved better.
Anyway the creep started calling me on Friday night, he called 5 times friday, 4 times Saturday, once yesterday and once today. Every time he would leave a message (total of 4 messages left) he just said to call him and every time I listened to the message I would say I be damned and erase it. What was funny was on Friday I did answer the house phone and told him he had the wrong number and he believed it!!! He called the cell three times and the house again and that time I left my best friend answer it because she was over helping me (yes still) clean up after the creep, he said he must have dialed the wrong number again and hung up. Well he finally left a message saying he guessed I wasn't taking his calls and he wished me the best and wanted to talk to me but if I wasn't taking his calls then he guessed he wouldn't be. It took 12 times ignoring his call in less than half a week to get the message across but it finally took! I didn't want to talk to him at all, not even long enough to tell him to leave me the hell alone! whew ok feel somewhat better now.
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art
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Posted - 07/04/2006 : 16:41:17
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I got a good laugh out of this one....Not at your expense, just at the direct no b.s. way you describe this loser...
It's always been a mystery to me why and how otherwise intelligent, attractive women get stuck with guys who are just so obviously horrible...It sometimes seems to me that women don't have the sleaze radar that men for the most part do...This would explain why for example, Bill Clinton was so much more popular with women than men...
This is not to say of course that men don't get stuck in bad relationships, but it just doesn't seem to happen nearly so often..
In any case, good going jrny...I'm sure better times are just around the corner...'
By the way, don't be surprised if he calls again, perhaps many times...JUst keep ignoring him completely, eventually he'll quit.. |
Edited by - art on 07/04/2006 16:42:18 |
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nd2139
USA
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Posted - 07/04/2006 : 17:45:01
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That's a pretty good story!
I don't know why you wanted to save this guy. That could be a trait of the TMS personality: to think that we're responsible for the lives of others and to work very hard in the hope of making their lives better. I've personally done that a lot with a girlfriend who tortured me for three years before finally stopping. I was trying to be nice to her and teach her how to stop being such a b***, but guess what, it failed. All the way I justified the situation by saying that it wasn't her fault if she was the way she was. All I managed to do is to make my life hell and grow more and more hostile at her over time. Of course I had quite a few TMS symptoms during those events.
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jrnythpst
USA
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Posted - 07/05/2006 : 08:48:19
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Thanks ND and Art!!!! I think it is within the personality as ND suggested. Art your response made me smile. So ND what was the final straw that made you get rid of her? If you don't mind my asking.
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Singer_Artist
USA
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Posted - 07/05/2006 : 09:13:53
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Hiya Ali Cat,
Good for you! The best part is the realization that maybe you are dating people who aren't good for you becuase of self esteem issues..I have been there myself...I think you will make wiser choices and I know "Mr. Right" is around the corner for you...
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Ex boyfriend finally took hint!
