I am just finishing off Dr. Hendricks's book "Learning To Love Yourself: A Guide To Becoming Centered."
If you have not heard of the work of Dr. John E. Sarno (in New York) and TMS then I highly recommend you read his books "Healing Back Pain" and "The MindBody Prescription." Many of his treatment ideas and yours mesh so well together is is simply amazing (ie getting in touch with your inner self and accepting them in a loving non-judgemental way without trying to change them). Dr. Sarno, and other doctors who have trained under him, have literally helped thousands of people free themselves from a life of agonizing pain. Two such doctors, Dr David Schechter who practices in Beverly Hills (e-mail: schechterd@aol.com) and Dr. Howard Schubiner in Detroit ( Howard.Schubiner@providence-stjohnhealth.org) are two examples of fine doctors.
Trust me when I say, I have read your work and the works of the above doctors and you have much more in common than you know.