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JohnD
USA
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 Posted - 12/21/2005 : 09:38:04
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| How does your husband react when he gets pain? I think everyone at one time or another gets TMS pain, but some people just interpret and react to it differently and that is often the difference between the pain leaving or becoming chronic. |
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gevorgyan
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Posted - 12/22/2005 : 01:46:52
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As I remember me before this year of TMS the was strong assurance in conscious that any pain come in– must go out.
And with my back was like that – I was following the doctor advises – staying, home resting and so one. And my wonderful mother came to me saying: “You know, our neighbor has back pain for 25 years till now, and she said that you would either get rid of it or it will stay forever”. Now I know that was a single doubt that was immediately used by naughty kid in my mind – “If such a case happens and now you know about it, you will get it”.
There was doubt, then was fear and then the pain remained.
TMS free people do not think seriously of any pain. But from the other hand, we mustn’t ignore emotional reasons when we finally found them out.
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ladyrat
USA
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Posted - 12/22/2005 : 06:47:22
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Gevorgyan:
There isn't anything, at least in my experience, that you need to "do" with your anger. What I did was sit down and make a list of everything that I was angry about and review it along with my daily reminders. |
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gevorgyan
115 Posts |
Posted - 12/23/2005 : 01:32:13
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Lady, this should bea list only of an anger, or also of a sadness, a fears, a wishes?
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isn't it dangerous to reveal the emotions?
