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Screensize: 640 x 480 800 x 600 1024 x 768 1280 x 1024 UserName: Password: Format Mode: Basic  Help  Prompt  Format: Font Andale Mono Arial Arial Black Book Antiqua Century Gothic Comic Sans MS Courier New Georgia Impact Lucida Console Script MT Bold Stencil Tahoma Times New Roman Trebuchet MS Verdana   Size 1 2 3 4 5 6   Color Black Red Yellow Pink Green Orange Purple Blue Beige Brown Teal Navy Maroon LimeGreen Message: * HTML is OFF * Forum Code is ON Smilies [quote][i]Originally posted by andy64tms[/i] [br]OK so I ‘m going to open up here! The other day I found myself getting into an argument with my wife. She was sitting at the computer, as we were discussing our not so favorite topic “finances”. I suddenly put my lips on the back of her neck. I don’t like arguing, but do it anyway. I zipped my lips up and just stayed there for a minute or so. I feel I was talking to her without using words that are so troublesome to us sometimes. If we can just stop the words for even a minute it helps. If we can just not respond when slighted like I did with my wife above and desensitize. We only have to do it once to learn this skill. The inspiration I got to do this was from her and you can read about it in this previous post. Called “Andy avoided arguing” http://www.tmshelp.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=7731 Just not responding is a strength not a weakness. Andy Past TMS Experience in 2000, with success. Stopped Wiki Edu Program in lieu of own journalling Charlie Horse on neck for 20 years, is almost gone. Books: Healing Back Pain Unlearn your Pain The Great Pain Deception [/quote]   Check here to include your profile signature.